Every woman should watch this. And maybe every man as well. I’ve been a fan of Andie MacDowell since the 1980s, when I carried a magazine picture of her in my wallet to show hair stylists how I wanted my hair to look. (True story.) Now I pull out my phone and do the same. My goal is for my hair to look like hers. Alas, my gray is slow to come in. My stylist tells me it’s because I’m a natural-born red head and we gray at a slower pace. It’s been 10+ years without putting a drop of color in my hair and I’m finally getting a significant amount of gray, but I want more. Soon, soon. Embrace the beauty of older age. Don’t listen to the anti-aging BS. Be you and be beautiful!

We stand on the cusp of a new year, another threshold, which, oddly enough, tends to get us thinking not about where we are standing at that moment but about ...